Imperfection

Living with imperfection is a lifelong process. It is a must to learn and adapt to. Why? Because life is imperfect much of the time. It just is. By definition. As much as we want perfection, it doesn’t happen automatically. Well, almost never.

Discipline is needed to perform well. A range of performance achievement is a variable. Scoring 100% on any task is the ideal; the reality is much less. Of course, we want the best for ourselves and our reputation. The truth, however, is more sobering. Perfection rarely happens. Too many variables affect outcomes – weather, personality, character, timing, less than ample resources – you know the items that spell victory or failure. They exist in every endeavor.

We work hard to improve the world. We get hooked on a problem that is especially pertinent to our lives and find the motivation to make a difference. We define desired outcomes for that problem area, research various solutions, find the resources to implement one of the resources, and commit the time and effort to make it happen. Afterwards, we research the outcomes and hope for an improvement that occurred because we cared. Did the outcome measure up with our hopes? Is there room to improve future outcomes? Can we make more of a difference in this area with continued commitment?

Time will tell if any of that is true. But improved outcomes happen because we move beyond the imperfections and commit to making a difference.

I had a new client the other day tell me she is planning her retirement but first wants to determine if she can find a passionate project to work on during retirement. She is exploring several related projects. All are good. One will be best for her and her unique resources. When she makes the decision to proceed with the best choice, we will work together to create the nonprofit organization that will manage toward improved outcomes for the project area. It is defined. It is a known issue needing solution. We have the commitment. Do we have the plan? And will we fight for the resources to make the plan work successfully?

Finally, will we accept the results and continue to fight on for better tomorrows regardless of our success or failure? How much imperfection can we live with. How much commitment do we have to live with reality and still strive for better outcomes?

Deep breaths and faith in us and others are needed. The improved outcomes remain, and our commitment remains a fixture of our passion. We just have to remember this and plod on.

February 21, 2024

 

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